I think about this every time I am out on my boat—why do people who would never wave to anyone in a car always wave to every single boater who passes by when they are in a boat? Being a stranger just seems to bring out an extra strong hand salute. It’s the weirdest thing.
Next time you are out on the water, just notice. Everyone, even grumpy old fishermen, raise their hand to a passing boater. Little kids almost fall overboard waving, and at least one person usually raises a plastic glass if it is around sunset.
I was out the other day, and took a count. I saw nine different boats filled with people just cruising along, enjoying the nice weather. Every person on every boat waved, and of course, I waved back. If any of us had done that in a car, I’m not sure what would have happened, but I can be pretty certain that the reaction would not have been positive. Road rage has occurred for less.
But not on a boat, and I am glad that we have kept our sense of friendliness on the water. It may be one of the last places where we still practice human kindness. I know if I see someone stalled on the side of the road, I am hesitant to stop, fearing that it might not be the best decision. But I have never passed up a boater in distress, and I know of no one else who has ever left anyone stranded. Why do we feel safe doing that on the water and not on land? I’m not sure, but it is a nice feeling to know that courtesy and caring still exists on the deep blue sea.